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MEN ONLY: What Women Look For on a First Date


Wondering what really scores high with women? Here's a checklist we gathered from a number of women that may give you some insight:

  • Does he carry himself with confidence?

  • Did he complain about every aspect of his life?

  • Did he describe all of his exes as "crazy"?

  • Does he appear trustworthy, dependable and honest?

  • Do we have good chemistry? Am I attracted to him?

  • Do I like his sense of humor? Does he have one? Did we have fun together?

  • Was he complimentary? Did he say something positive about the way I look?

  • Did he only have eyes for me? Or was he interested in other women in the room?

  • Is he a good communicator? Did he listen and appear to be interested in what I had to say?

  • Is he well groomed with good hygiene? Clothes clean and pressed?

  • Is he interesting? Did we engage easily in conversation or was it a struggle? Did he only talk about himself?

  • Does he stay off his phone during the date? Does he stay engaged?

  • Is he intelligent? Does he seem interested in life? Is he the type of man who makes things happen?

  • Does he have good manners? Did he open doors? Did he show me consideration and treat me with respect? Is he polite to others?

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