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Depending on your needs and goals, at some point during your membership we may recommend to you our IJL Date Smart Coaching Program and/or Personal Style Consultation. Please inquire with a member of your Matchmaking team for further details.


Date Smart Coaching

In the workplace, most professionals arm themselves with the best tools to accomplish their goals. They do their research. They often reach out to experts for additional assistance. They establish a plan and put in the work to reach their objective.  Dating isn’t that different.  To be successful, you must equip yourself just as you would with any goal-oriented project.  

Our program consists of customized one-on-one private sessions with a certified coach. This includes personalized discovery assignments as well as follow-up action plans.  Your IJL Date Smart Coach will make sure you are applying the strategies in a way that will accelerate your results while customizing the steps to your unique dating needs.

Learn more under the Date Smart Coaching tab.

Date Styling

Work with our Image and Style Coach to update your personal image and make a great first impression.

First impressions are so important when meeting someone new, and sometimes we find ourselves in a style rut and in need of an expert’s opinion to realize our full potential.  Your coach will deliver constructive advice and feedback to help you reveal your best self.  Whether you just need opinions about what to wear on your dates, an update to your wardrobe, or you desire a full makeover, our Image and Style Coach will be there with you every step of the way. They will even take you shopping! Stylists will choose one location and scout date-worthy looks prior to your arrival so the process is streamlined and stress-free.

Elite Private Search


Elite Private Search is a specialized division of It’s Just Lunch, in which we conduct a private search specifically on behalf of a Client.  Elite Clients see photos in advance of their dates and matches are recruited for them both inside and outside of the IJL membership base by our Elite recruiting team. This program is by invitation only and offered only to our most selective IJL Clients when there is an opening available.  Contact your Client Advisor to discuss your upgrade to Elite Private Search.

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