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    Fun Date Ideas for Summer 2022
    It's Just Lunch
    • Jun 8
    • 4 min

    Fun Date Ideas for Summer 2022

    Summer is here and in full swing. With longer days and warmer temperatures, this is the best time to get to know someone special. After...
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    How The Dating Rules Have Changed Since The 90s
    It's Just Lunch
    • Jun 8
    • 4 min

    How The Dating Rules Have Changed Since The 90s

    Gone are the days when it was perfectly ok to walk up to a stranger, strike up a conversation and eventually ask them out for coffee....
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    THE TALK 'EXCLUSIVITY'
    It's Just Lunch
    • May 20
    • 4 min

    THE TALK 'EXCLUSIVITY'

    Going on dates is fun; figuring out the long-term potential is where uncertainty starts creeping in. Becoming exclusive, for many...
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    SUMMER DATING IN 3, 2, 1
    It's Just Lunch
    • May 17
    • 2 min

    SUMMER DATING IN 3, 2, 1

    After a long winter and cold and rainy spring, the weather is finally beginning to heat up and singles are ready to enjoy the outdoors...
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    One Easy Shift to Healthy Dating
    It's Just Lunch
    • Apr 19
    • 4 min

    One Easy Shift to Healthy Dating

    As the world turns, it is always good to assess where you are, how you got there and the road ahead of you. The dating scene has changed...
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    What type of dater are you?
    It's Just Lunch
    • Apr 11
    • 4 min

    What type of dater are you?

    Wouldn’t it be nice if you always got feedback after a first date? Something like a performance review to help you know how to move...
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    WHAT DOES MEDITATION HAVE TO DO WITH DATING?
    It's Just Lunch
    • Mar 22
    • 3 min

    WHAT DOES MEDITATION HAVE TO DO WITH DATING?

    The idea of dating creates butterflies. It sounds so beautiful, if only it showed up that beautifully. But, what is that energy? ...
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    Maximizing Your Dating Experience
    It's Just Lunch
    • Mar 4
    • 3 min

    Maximizing Your Dating Experience

    As Matchmakers we love to see singles take big steps in making their relationship dreams a reality. However, time is one common factor...
    128 views0 comments
    In February we K.I.S.S.
    It's Just Lunch
    • Feb 22
    • 2 min

    In February we K.I.S.S.

    Cupid’s favorite time of the year… February: The month of love! And in honor of celebrating love all month long, let’s take a look at how...
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    Love Languages & Dating
    It's Just Lunch
    • Feb 22
    • 3 min

    Love Languages & Dating

    It’s Valentine’s Day and Cupid is shooting his arrows at singles everywhere. But the reality is, that not every arrow is a bullseye into...
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    3 Tips to Leveling up First Date Conversation
    It's Just Lunch
    • Jan 25
    • 3 min

    3 Tips to Leveling up First Date Conversation

    Every great first date feedback includes something that sounds a lot like “the conversion was great, it flowed easily and the time flew...
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    Refresh with a Dating Makeover
    It's Just Lunch
    • Jan 18
    • 3 min

    Refresh with a Dating Makeover

    2022 is here and the spotlight is on making those resolutions reality! While you have your mind focused on a New Year, New You, as a...
    107 views0 comments
    Put The Spotlight on YOU in 2022!
    It's Just Lunch
    • Dec 21, 2021
    • 3 min

    Put The Spotlight on YOU in 2022!

    New Year, New You? It seems that with everything we’ve been through over the past couple years, that our “typical” New Year’s...
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    Walking in a One-Date-Wonderland? Tips to secure that second date!
    It's Just Lunch
    • Dec 15, 2021
    • 3 min

    Walking in a One-Date-Wonderland? Tips to secure that second date!

    Cuffing season is in full swing and first dates are warming hearts like chestnuts roasting on an open fire. It’s also the season where...
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    Winter Dating Survival Tips
    It's Just Lunch
    • Nov 16, 2021
    • 2 min

    Winter Dating Survival Tips

    The sun is setting earlier and the nights are getting cooler; yes, winter is right around the corner. So, what does that mean for your...
    116 views0 comments
    Getting Grateful for the Holi-dates
    It's Just Lunch
    • Nov 16, 2021
    • 2 min

    Getting Grateful for the Holi-dates

    It’s that time of year when Hallmark starts their Countdown to Christmas, holiday shopping is in full swing and events are happening all...
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    Single? Don’t be spooked by Halloween!
    It's Just Lunch
    • Oct 19, 2021
    • 2 min

    Single? Don’t be spooked by Halloween!

    Americans love their holidays, and Halloween ranks as their 3rd favorite, just behind Christmas and Thanksgiving. And anyone who...
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    Do's & Don'ts of Cuffing Season
    It's Just Lunch
    • Oct 15, 2021
    • 2 min

    Do's & Don'ts of Cuffing Season

    Cuffing season has officially begun, and you know what that means… Let the pairing begin! For those not in “the know”, cuffing season is...
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    The Importance of Staying Present on Your Date
    It's Just Lunch
    • Sep 17, 2021
    • 2 min

    The Importance of Staying Present on Your Date

    Do you put too much pressure on a first date? If so, STOP!...and remember that a first date doesn’t need to be anything more than an...
    262 views0 comments
    Taking A Break From Dating: Good Or Bad Idea?
    It's Just Lunch
    • Sep 14, 2021
    • 2 min

    Taking A Break From Dating: Good Or Bad Idea?

    Trial and error, it’s a fundamental part of life. In dating, you see it as trying on different people through dates, then identifying...
    118 views0 comments
    10 Characteristics of Highly Successful Daters
    It's Just Lunch
    • Aug 23, 2021
    • 4 min

    10 Characteristics of Highly Successful Daters

    As first date experts, we are often asked “what can I do to become a more successful dater?” While there isn’t a foolproof list or...
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    Back to The Basics!
    It's Just Lunch
    • Aug 13, 2021
    • 2 min

    Back to The Basics!

    It’s time to ditch the pajama bottoms and get back to the basics! That’s right, you don’t want the casual dress of working from home to...
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    Single Parents... This One's For You!
    It's Just Lunch
    • Jul 20, 2021
    • 3 min

    Single Parents... This One's For You!

    Singles come from every walk of life. Some are recently divorced and some have lost a spouse. In many cases these types of situations...
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    "Hot Vax Summer"
    It's Just Lunch
    • Jul 16, 2021
    • 2 min

    "Hot Vax Summer"

    The promise of a mask-less summer and in-person dating has brought a rise in sales to teeth whitening and beauty products everywhere! But...
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    30 Years of Matchmaking!
    It's Just Lunch
    • Jun 22, 2021
    • 2 min

    30 Years of Matchmaking!

    We’ve set up first dates for millions of clients worldwide and coached singles through all stages of their dating journeys. Along the...
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    30 Years of IJL Success!
    It's Just Lunch
    • Jun 18, 2021
    • 5 min

    30 Years of IJL Success!

    This month, It’s Just Lunch is celebrating 30 years of first dates and success stories. It’s Just Lunch was created as a proactive...
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    Spring Dating With A Twist
    It's Just Lunch
    • May 18, 2021
    • 2 min

    Spring Dating With A Twist

    Spring is the ideal time for a fresh start! Whether you’re just starting to date again, or have been seeing someone throughout the winter...
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    First Date Follow Up
    It's Just Lunch
    • May 11, 2021
    • 3 min

    First Date Follow Up

    Successful first date - check! What’s next? Ahh yes, the quintessential question that makes even the most confident feel butterflies…...
    183 views0 comments
    Why Springtime is The Best Time to Date
    It's Just Lunch
    • Apr 23, 2021
    • 2 min

    Why Springtime is The Best Time to Date

    There’s something reinvigorating about the first days of spring. As the flowers start to bloom, there’s an urge to shed off the old and...
    71 views0 comments
    Trending: Vacci-dating
    It's Just Lunch
    • Apr 15, 2021
    • 2 min

    Trending: Vacci-dating

    Dating through this pandemic has meant adapting, just like everything else in our life. Naturally, that means new dating terms and...
    73 views0 comments

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