Our IJL Date Smart Coaching Team has compiled some of their favorite recommendations. These podcasts, videos and books are the building blocks to creating successful dating and personal habits.
The 2020 IJL Guide to Dating:
Chapter 1: Change Your Outlook & Your Luck Will Change
Chapter 2: Where to Begin
Chapter 3: Places to go, People to See
Chapter 4: The It's Just Lunchbox of Flirting Tips and Tools
Chapter 5: It's a Date!
Chapter 6: The First Date
Chapter 7: Beyond The First Date
Chapter 8: Dating Exclusively
Chapter 9: Specific Dating Situations
How to Be Single and Happy: Science-Based Strategies for Keeping Your Sanity While Looking for a Soul Mate by Jennifer Taitz
If The Buddha Dated by Charlotte Kasl
Living The 80/20 Way by Richard Koch
The Seven Habits Of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey
Daring Greatly by Brene Brown
Power of Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peale
For Body Image:
Love Your Body, Love Your Life: 5 Steps to End Negative Body Obsession and Start Living Happily and Confidently by Sarah Maria
If you have struggled with Abuse:
Why does he do that by Lundy Bancroft
For Conversation Skills:
The Charisma Myth: How Anyone Can Master the Art and Science of Personal Magnetism by Olivia Fox Cabane
How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie
The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman
Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix
For Sex/Sex Appeal
She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide To Pleasuring A Woman by Ian Kerner, Ph.D.
Mama Gena’s School of Womanly Arts by Regena Thomashauer
For Dating Strategy
First Impressions: What You Don't Know About How Others See You by Ann Demarais and Valerie White
The key to great energy on a first date
IJL's Dating and Relationship Coach, Jolene Beaton, interviews Entrepreneur Greg Anderson to discuss how meditation can bring great energy to your dating life.
Using your voice in the dating world to get what you want!
IJL's Dating and Relationship Coach, Jolene Beaton, interviews Author, Global Speaker and Certified Life Coach Andrea Owen. Andrea helps women achieve and maximize unshakeable confidence and master resilience!
Dating with Kids
IJL's Dating and Relationship Coach, Jolene Beaton, interviews Relationship and Healing Coach Heather Carter.
Looking and Feeling Your Best
Jolene Beaton's, IJL own Date & Relationship Coach, talks with Dr. Debbie Bright, Functional Medicine Practitioner about how looking and feeling your best impacts your dating world and love life.
What is coaching and how do clients benefit from it? Tune in with Matchmaker Julie and Dating Coach Jolene as they discuss.
Interview with Michael O'Neal
Michael O'Neal is the host of a internationally top-rated podcast, The Soloprenuer hour. In this interview Michael and Jolene discuss what to do with your time in business, how to develop a hobby/interest, the art of conversation and connection on a date.