9 Challenges Busy Professionals Face When It Comes To Dating
Let’s face it: there’s no shortage of challenges that singles face when it comes to the dating scene. But for career-minded...
"No one seems ready for commitment; how can I tell early on without sounding desperate?"
Most people that I work with feel like they have put a lot of effort into closure on past relationships, improving social connections, and ultimately being “ready” to be in a committed relationship. Sometimes it can feel harder at this point because you are so clear on what you are looking for it’s almost as though the universe is serving you up everything but.
Patience is key at this point in the dating world. Trust that you are “ready” to pick a good partner for life long commitment now focus on enjoying the process of how this special person comes into your life. Envision how your love story will start.
Am I too old to be dating?
No! Quite the opposite, people assume that dating is a young persons game. What we find at IJL is that with age comes experience and wisdom that translates perfectly into dating. People are attracted others that carry a strong sense of self and do not take themselves too seriously. You have earned badges that in a way entitle you too the great love story that awaits. So why not you? Why not now.
"I feel so ready to find someone, why is it not happening?"
One way to discover someone’s relationship readiness is to share your thoughts, feelings and desires around dating, love and marriage. So instead of posing the question to your date. Simply share first or snag an opportunity from one of their questions to shift the conversation in that direction. For example, When someone asks why you are single or about the dating service you met though respond with what you are looking for. “I’m at a stage in my life where A committed relationship is a priority and I’m Ready to invest in dating one person at a time and let it unfold naturally.
"When is the time to suggest a weekend getaway?
Weekend getaways are a great idea to build intimacy, create a romantic experience and take your relationship to the next level. Most feel Comfortable going away for a weekend if the relationship is committed and exclusive. Keep in mind you may want to discuss the details “are we getting one room or two?” Simply in conversation on your next date, gauge their comfort level. “I would really like us to get out of our regular routines when do you think you may be interested in a weekend away?”